Be independent!.
Assalamualaikum ladies. Congratulations to those who are getting married. Here's some important advice from me. Before deciding to get married, it's important to acknowledge the possibility that people can change. This isn't meant to be a pessimistic view of relationships, but rather a realistic one. People grow and evolve over time, and sometimes those changes can lead them in different directions. It's crucial to enter into marriage with the understanding that you are choosing to commit to this person as they are now, but also recognizing that they may change in the future. This means being prepared to stand alone if necessary, not because you expect your partner to change, but because you understand that it's a possibility and you are committed to your own well-being regardless of the outcome. Standing alone doesn't mean shutting yourself off from the world or from love, but rather being self-sufficient and secure in who you are outside of your relationship.